As you try to make your way through life, you are going to encounter a lot of different kinds of men. Some of them are going to fairly terrible, the kind of men who you will not want to have anything to do with. A vast majority of them are going to be insignificant. They won’t really add or take away any value from your life at all. And then there are the select few… the men who you know are amazing. These are the men you really want to latch yourself onto.
However, just because you encounter these great men in your life doesn’t mean that you’re actually going to get them to notice you. It can be very easy to put yourself in the presence of a great guy. But it can be really difficult to set yourself apart in a crowd. It can be very difficult to actually leave an imprint on his mind and in his heart.
But that’s okay. It’s not supposed to be easy. If it were easy, then everyone would be able to do it well. You just need to know what to do. You just need to know the tricks of the trade. And you definitely need to be willing to put in the effort to get him to notice you.
If you see a guy that you’re interested in, then you need to step up and actually try to go after him. You can’t be passive anymore. If you don’t put in the effort, then a lot of other people are probably going to overshadow you. And you can’t have that happen.
You know you want love in your life. You know that you eventually want to end up with someone who you can build a happy and healthy life with. You know that you want to find a man who is going to love you the way that you have always wanted to be loved. And if you really want to turn your dreams into a reality, then you’re going to have to stand out. You’re going to have to make yourself known. You’re going to have to grab his attention.
However, before we move on, it’s important that you understand that grabbing his attention is only the first part of the equation. Keeping his attention is another story entirely. And you’re really going to have to step your game up if you really want to keep him in your life.
But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. What you have to do right now is grab his attention. What you have to do right now is get him to notice you. And how do you do that? What do you do if you don’t know where you’re supposed to start? What if you’re inexperienced in this field? Well, just read on below to have all your worries put to rest.
1. Initiate the contact.
Don’t be too shy about being the one who makes the first move. Just because you are the woman here doesn’t mean that you must be the one who waits for your man to be the one who initiates the contact. You don’t have to be passive anymore. You can be the one who acts first.
If you’re just going to keep on staying passive, then you’re unlikely to get him to notice you. It’s unlikely that you would ever be able to make yourself stand out from the crowd if you just keep on sitting pretty. Go ahead and send him that first text. Buy him that drink. Be the one who acts first. Don’t be shy.
2. Maintain eye contact with him.
Maybe a man is going to hold back a little bit and maybe he will wait for you to give a little indication before he makes a move on you. But you don’t always have to make such a blatant and obvious declaration of your interest in him. You don’t have to be screaming these positive signals towards him.
You can do something as simple as letting your eyes do all of the talking. Let your gaze do all of the work. If he’s interested in you, he’s going to be looking at you a lot. And once you do manage to catch his gaze, then try to keep it there. Linger for a bit. And make sure that he knows that you definitely mean business.
3. Smile a lot.
And of course, the most basic thing that you can do to really grab a guy’s attention is to smile. In a room full of people, a man is most likely to take notice of the girl who is flashing those pearly whites. Make him see that you’re just bursting with positive energy. Show him how happy he can be if he chooses to hang out with you.