1. BE YOURSELF
All of my tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you surround being yourself.
If you’re fake, it doesn’t matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won’t be in love with the real you.
So, my first idea is always to be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me.
After all, you would hate to fall in love with a guy that isn’t being himself, right?
2. BE DIFFERENT
Trying to be unique and different in a way, I’ve always tried to interest guys.
I don’t want him to think that I’m just like all the other girls out there…
instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart.
So, I don’t talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip.
Ask him about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show him you’re worldly!
Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I’m telling you – it works.
Guys love to be showered with attention and treated like a king.
So, toss your hair a little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes.
Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, because they work!
4. BRING HIM A TREAT
The old saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach isn’t just an old saying for no reason- it’s !
I always bake a little treat for a guy when I’m trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I surprise him with it on a random day.
When my husband and I were first datings, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game.
He just loved it!
5. BE TRUSTWORTHY
Guys love someone they can trust.
I learned the hard way that telling my girlfriends everything about a new guy in my life wasn’t the best idea.
The word always gets back to the guy that I’ve talked about what he told me or told details about our time together, and he always bolts.
So, discretion is the best policy.
Don’t tell your girls every little bit of your private conversations, and your guy will trust and respect you much more.
Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming.
So, I always listen more than I talked when I was trying to attract a guy.
Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc. about 20% of the time and let him control the conversation about 80% of the time.
If he is attuned to women, he will ask you questions too, and it’ll develop into a beautiful little back and forth conversation!
7. BE SUPPORTIVE OF HIS INTERESTS
Guys love it when a girl takes an interest in what he likes to do.
Even if you don’t necessarily like what he is into (like video games or sports!), give it a try — that way, you can have some common ground.
Guys, that also means that you’ll have to take an interest in your girl’s affairs too!
A relationship is a two-way street
8. BE WITTY
I know it can be difficult sometimes if you are around your crush, but don’t get too tongue-tied and go for it!
Remember when I said that a guy likes a girl with a sense of humor?
Show that side of yourself to him and be confident in who you are!
9. BE SWEET
Sometimes, I can be catty…
all girls can be.
When I’m with my girlfriends, we’ll gossip or trash some other girl for being rude or trashy, but that’s not an excellent way to act.
And, let me tell you, I’ve learned that this kind of behavior doesn’t attract guys.
Boys are drawn to girls who are sweet and don’t gossip, so keep cattiness and nasty comments to yourself around your new guy.
The occasional catty comment is okay, but keep it to a minimum!
10. LET HIM CALL YOU
When I’m trying to get a guy, I play a little hard to get.
I don’t call him all the time, try to track him down, or generally make myself a bother.
I want him to think that I’m too busy out there having a great time to bother with him and that he better get in touch with me quickly if he’s interested in sharing any time with me!
Let him do the pursuing, and he’ll be much more interested in you.