You’re probably familiar with those couples that seem to have no shortage of drama in their relationships. They go through a lot of ups and downs that their relationship practically becomes the epitome of an emotional rollercoaster. They break up and get back together so often that you don’t know where they stand with regards to one another. They might consider themselves to be in a completely normal relationship but you know that it’s definitely something that is out of the ordinary.
A lot of these unpredictable relationships might have substantial levels of toxicity in them and they are living proof of how diverse and unique relationships can be. That’s why it’s essential to always understand how a Zodiac sign typically conducts themselves in the realms of love and relationships. It’s going to give you a better idea of who you need to be fishing for when you thrust yourself into the dating market. You want to be with someone who is going to be emotionally compatible with you.
And for a sure group of people, unpredictability is going to be a very essential aspect of a relationship. While for other people it can be very stressful to have to deal with a partner who is seemingly volatile and just plainly uncontrollable. All Zodiac signs are always going to express themselves differently. And the manner in which you conduct yourself in a relationship does have a lot to do with your astrological orientation. “Some people look forward to predictable day-to-day events in their relationships,” says expert astrologer Cindy Mckean. “Others thrive off of drama, and they may not even know they’re doing that, because that kind of expression is normal to them.”
Having a lot of drama and unpredictability in a relationship might not exactly be everyone’s cup of tea – but it’s not something that is entirely unusual or out of the ordinary.
However, it’s also essential to note that having too much volatility in a relationship can breed toxicity especially when it is left unchecked or uncontrolled. However, just because a relationship between two people has a lot of emotions and feelings that come to the surface doesn’t automatically mean that these people are handling their love in a very unhealthy way. We all express ourselves differently and it’s all a matter of preference and compatibility.
The most essential thing that you need to remember here is that you always practice respect and care for one another. No matter how tense a situation you might find yourselves in, you must always conduct yourself maturely and kindly.
So, if you’re set on pairing up with a partner who is going to provide your relationship with a lot of unpredictability (and potential instability), then you might want to consider dating these two Zodiac signs in particular:
1. Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22)
A Leo is going to be far from being a discreet or stoic individual. They are of the belief that they must always e willing to be open and expressive about their feelings and emotions in life. That’s why it is absolutely essential that they end up with someone who is comfortable with emotional openness and honesty. They need a partner who would be able to come to terms with their emotions on a consistent basis.
“From Leo’s perspective, it’s normal to be human: in other words, a sentient being with a range of feelings,” advises Mckean. “With that, they feel comfortable sharing that with the person they chose as their partner […] Expressing emotions, no matter how extreme, is not just life for them, but part of living and being alive.”
Leos are inherently forgiving creatures and that’s why it’s easy for them to move on from tense situations in a relationship. And they also hope that their partners would be just as forgiving as they are.
2. Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21)
A Scorpio is going to have the emotional depth that very few others would be able to match. They always feel things in a more immense and deep manner than most others are able to experience for themselves. That’s why they can often come across as being unpredictable in their relationships.
“Those that don’t have fortitude might feel […] that Scorpios are volatile, because they [can be],” says McKean of the Scorpio. “Ultimately, if a Scorpio includes you in their world, sharing means caring. They only show their vulnerability and volatility to those they truly love, which isn’t much of a consequence compared to everything else they bring to a relationship.”
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé