1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
As an Aries, you have a tendency to rush your partner to the point that you make them uncomfortable about being with you. And that can be a problem if you’re trying to sustain your relationship for the long run. You don’t want to be burning your partner out. You need to be able to adjust to their pace as well if you’re going to accommodate them into your life.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
Learn to open your mind up a little bit, Taurus. You need to stop being so adamant about having your way all of the time. You are someone who tends to be very stiff and rigid with your thoughts and your overall philosophy. You need to be able to accommodate other mindsets and philosophies in your life. You aren’t always going to be correct with what you think.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
Just commit to who you are, Gemini. You have a bad habit of just being inconsistent with your personality. You have very erratic behavior and it can make it difficult for anyone to find a sense of consistency and stability with you. Just be comfortable with your true self so that you make it easier for your partner to be comfortable with you too.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You need to engage in more self-care and self-love in the relationship, Cancer. Even though it’s such a great trait for you to be giving and loving in the relationship, you need to be the same towards yourself. You need to learn to be more independent. You can’t keep on counting on your partner to take care of you. You need to be able to do that for yourself.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You could probably do away with a little bit of your arrogance, Leo. You might think that you’re just being confident and self-assured. And that’s great. It’s okay to be confident. What isn’t okay is when you’re too confident to the point that you become arrogant. It can be very off-putting to those around you; even the people who love you.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You need to be a little more flexible in your life, Virgo. You can’t keep on being so rigid with the way that you do things. Yes, you are a perfectionist with high standards. But your partner isn’t always going to want to be subjected to your constant judgment, pressure, and criticism. You need to learn to be a little more lenient if you want to keep your partner happy.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Design a decision for once, Libra. It’s great that you always have a kind and sensitive heart that is constantly looking out for the people around you. It’s good that you always stay mindful of the needs and feelings of others. But you shouldn’t be doing so to the point that you forget about your own personal wants and needs. Don’t be afraid to ask for something that you want. Design a decision for yourself.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
Being guarded and safe when it comes to emotional openness and vulnerability is fine. It’s a way for you to protect yourself from any potential pain. However, when you’re in a relationship, you are going to want to open yourself up to your partner in order to get them to trust you. You need to make sure that you don’t shut yourself off to them.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
Commit. Cease keeping one foot outside of the door of your relationship. It’s either you’re all-in or you’re not in at all. You can’t keep giving half-hearted efforts to your relationship and expect it to work out to your favor. You are going to have to dedicate yourself to the longevity of your relationship.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Learn to manage your time better. You can’t always be giving all of your time to your career and your personal goals. There are other aspects to life than just work. And you need to remind yourself of that all the time. If you fail to give time to your relationship, then you will be at risk of just completely compromising your relationship in favor of other things.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
Tap into your emotions more, Aquarius. You have a tendency to just shut your emotions off entirely to the point that you come off as purely cold, distant, and robotic. You need to be able to exude warmth to your partner if you want them to feel comfortable with you on an emotional level.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Cease living in your fantasies all of the time, Pisces. You need to learn to grasp that reality is going to be very much different from how you want the world to be like. You aren’t always going to get what you want in your relationship. And you can’t keep on subjecting your partner to outrageous demands and expectations.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé