1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Whenever you get into a relationship the greatest fear that you have as an Aries is missing out on everything that you could be doing as a single person. You know that you need to lock yourself down when you get into a relationship with someone. And a relationship can sometimes serve as a shackle that keeps you from doing all sorts of things in life.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
Your absolute biggest fear in relationships is being betrayed. But it’s not just about any kind of betrayal. It’s all about getting cheated on. As a Taurus, you are a very loyal and committed soul. You are someone who dives into a relationship headfirst whenever you fall in love. And it scares you to be in a relationship with someone who wouldn’t be as loyal and as committed as you are.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You fear being abandoned. As a Gemini, you typically don’t allow yourself to get close or intimate with any person. You always try to keep things casual. You never want to be getting into deep relationships. And it’s all because you fear of having to let go of that person once you become attached to them. The attachment might be hard for you. But detaching is even harder.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You are so scared of getting hurt. That’s the number one fear that you have whenever you get into a relationship. As a Cancer, you know that you get hurt fairly easily. And you feel pain so immensely. You do care a lot about people. And when the people you care about hurt you, that’s the kind of pain you would never want to put yourself through.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You are ultimately scared of opening yourself up to someone in a very intimate and open level. As a Leo, you never want to be putting yourself in a position of weakness in relation to other people. However, you know that vulnerability is very much essential in any kind of romantic relationship. And you are scared that they will end up using your vulnerability against you.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Rejection is the one thing that you dread in a romantic relationship. As a Virgo, you are someone who holds people to very high standards and expectations. So, you are fairly used to rejecting people. However, you also know what kind of pain you bring into the lives of the people you reject. And you ultimately fear experiencing that pain for yourself.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You are ultimately scared of getting taken for granted. As a Libra, you are someone who would never tire of making the people you care about happy. You would put a lot of effort into any romantic relationship that you get into. However, you are scared that your efforts might go unnoticed or underappreciated. That would hurt you.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
You are very much afraid of getting your hopes up about a person only to be disappointed by them. You 3have tried this so many times. You meet someone who piques your interest and you decide to give them a chance. You start to get your hopes up. But then, as you get to know them more, you discover that they’re not as great as you expected them to be.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You are afraid of committing yourself to the wrong person before you realize that it’s not meant to be between the two of you after all. You don’t want to be getting into a relationship with someone, completely investing in them, and then realizing in the long run that you’re just wrong for one another.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
You are mostly afraid of getting too caught up in your relationships to the point that you end up forgetting about the responsibilities and goals that you have set for yourself. You are a very driven and ambitious person, and you are mostly afraid that your relationship would just get in the way of your dreams.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
You are very much afraid of falling in love with a toxic person. You are someone who likes to make sure that you steer clear of toxic individuals who would only take away from the positivity of your life. You like to surround yourself with positive energy. And you know that being with toxic people would only bring you down.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You are afraid of being with someone who will take advantage of you. You are a very kind and softhearted person. However, you are also very much vulnerable to predators who will only look to manipulate you and use you.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé