Do you have an old soul?
1. You are only capable of carrying on with shallow conversations.
You don’t have the intellect, the courage, or the maturity to engage in deep conversations with people. You only like to engage in small talk. While this is okay for some people, it doesn’t work with girls who have old souls. These girls tend to only be attracted to men who are able to keep up with intellectually stimulating discussions. They want men who have depth. They can’t deal with people who are also mentally dense.
2. You don’t like to open up when it comes to your emotions.
You have to be able to open up about your thoughts, feelings, and opinions with a girl who has an old soul. You can’t afford to be emotionally closed off. She is going to leave you if you start to shut her out from your feelings. You have to be able to be vulnerable with her. You have to be able to trust her with your feelings. Otherwise, she is definitely walking out that door.
3. You rely also much on winning her over with material things.
Girls with old souls don’t care about material things. You are going to have to woo her with your intellect, character, resilience, strength, and bravery. She is going to want to see you become a man with great personal qualities. She has no care for any of your material assets. She doesn’t care about how rich or successful you are. She doesn’t care about what car you drive. She only cares about who you are as a person. – Continue reading on the next page
4. You don’t know what you want in life.
If you feel like you’re lost in life, you can’t expect a girl with an old soul to wait around after you. You have to be able to know what you want out of life. You have to have a semblance of direction and structure in your life. You can’t be unstable with how you are living your life and expect a girl with an old soul to fall in love with you. You have to set goals for yourself and you need to have the drive that is necessary to go after the things that you want in life.
5. You are also scared to confront your own emotions.
You can’t be a coward if you want to date a girl who has an old soul. You have to be brave enough to confront your own emotions no matter how difficult it may seem. You have to be introspective. You have to always reflect upon your feelings and your emotions during essential moments. You can’t just sweep your emotions under the rug and expect your girl to be okay with it.
6. You tell her that she’s being an overthinker.
She might very well be an overthinker but she doesn’t understand why that should be a bad thing. If you tell your girl with an old soul that she just thinks also much, then that’s a real game changer for her. She will not hesitate to walk away from a man whom she feels doesn’t think enough. If you are intimidated by her intellect and her propensity for reflection, then you just aren’t going to be meant for her.
7. You play games with her.
A girl with an old soul is never going to treat love as if it were a game. She is going to take the relationship very seriously. And if she happens to see that you aren’t taking it as seriously as she is, she will drop you in a heartbeat. She has no time to be tolerating boys who are just playing around with her. She only wants to date real men who are serious and committed to a relationship. – Continue reading on the next page
8. You suffocate her and you don’t let her grow.
One thing you have to know about a girl with an old soul is that she is strong and independent. She likes her freedom because she knows she has great potential to achieve great things. She thinks of herself as a free spirit and she always likes the space to pursue her dreams. If you are going to act as a barrier to her achievements, then she will not hesitate to just leave you in the dust.
9. You try to rush the relationship.
You can’t just rush through the different stages of a relationship with a woman who has an old soul. You need to let things flow organically and naturally. You can’t force things when it comes to her. She doesn’t like being forced into anything.
10. You avoid confrontations and conflict with her.
You shouldn’t be afraid of conflicts with her. You shouldn’t be the kind of person who avoids arguments with her. You should always be willing to have difficult conversations with her no matter how uncomfortable it’s going to make you. She doesn’t tolerate men who cower away from difficult discussions.
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The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé