Ladies, be careful…
Never take the task of having to find your soulmate lightly. It’s no easy feat and a lot of people spend years and decades trying to find that one perfect person with whom they can spend the rest of their lives with. Of course, throughout your dating life, you might end up dating someone you are just not into; someone who is bad for you and toxic. And then there will also be times wherein you meet someone who is good for you, but he isn’t necessarily the one who brings the kind of magic that you’re looking for in a relationship. What you think you need is that person who is able to sweep you off of your feet. You want that person who is able to be the light during your darkest days. You want to be with your soulmate;
the man with whom you can build a happy and healthy future with. This is the guy you want to spend the remainder of your days with. This is the person you want to establish a family with. So how do you know when you’ve found that guy? It can be hard to tell at first. And you never want to make the mistake of letting go of an opportunity to fall in love with the man you’re just meant to be with. That’s why you have to know what you’re looking for when you’re trying to search for your soulmate. To enlighten you further, here are a few things that you could look out for to know if he’s your soulmate.
1. He is always willing to talk to you about the future.
He is willing to discuss the future with you because he has no problems envisioning an actual future with you. If he didn’t think that you guys would last, he wouldn’t be comfortable with talking about future plans and goals at all.
2. He is the first to comfort you whenever you’re feeling sad or overwhelmed.
He would immediately drop anything just to rush by your side and make sure that you’re okay whenever you call him. If you’re in trouble, he would always try his best to protect you from the harms of the world. If you’re feeling vulnerable, he would be the first to give you a hug.
3. He allows himself to be his true and genuine self with you.
He doesn’t want to hide who he is whenever he’s with you. For one, he wants to make you feel like you can always trust him to be his true and genuine self. And next, he is so comfortable with you, he doesn’t feel like he has to change who he is to be with you.
4. He makes it a point to get closer to your family and friends.
He knows just how essential your friends and family are to you. He knows that you always value it whenever he makes an effort to get closer to the people who are near and dear to your heart.
5. He would willingly do whatever he could to make you happy.
He would always want to consider your happiness his own happiness as well. It makes him happy whenever he knows that you’re happy and that’s why he would willingly do whatever it takes to bring a big fat smile to your face.
6. He will be honest with you even when it’s inconvenient.
He knows just how essential honesty is in a relationship and that’s why he would never lie to you; not even to get himself out o trouble. He knows that you trust him to always tell you the truth and he would never want to betray that trust by lying to you.
7. He will do his best to make you feel special and appreciated.
He is never going to make you feel like you’re just like anyone else. He is always going to make sure that you never feel unessential or expendable in his life. He will always do his best to ensure that you know your worth and that you never have to feel insecure about your place in his world.
8. He will make sure that you always feel like you are being listened to.
He will never want you to feel like your opinions don’t matter. He won’t make you feel like your words don’t have any impact on him. He will always make it a point to make you feel like he pays attention to whatever it is you have to say.
9. He would integrate you within his own social circles.
Aside from making an effort to be close to your friends and family, he would also want you to get close to the people who are near to his heart. You are essential to him and he wants to fully merge you into his world.
10. He will never stop putting in the effort to have you fall in love with him.
And lastly, it’s all about the effort. He will never get tired of trying to work hard for your love. He will always put in the effort necessary to make you fall in love with him every single day that you’re together.
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The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé